just one more touch of your heart

and well im okay right now. cause i talked to you the other day and we talked about so much, you- how you are. me- but im so vague, i would've been so irritated with myself but well you wernt. us- how we miss each other. and we talked about memories, 'remember whens' along with aggravations,
which i cant blame you.
but you see all those aggravations, i want to put them in a little box and throw them out a window. cause that's not what i want to be to you. at all.
i want to be there for you
someone you can tell good stories and bad stories to.
someone you can complain to.
someone you can turn to.
and someone who will kiss your forehead again. and tell you it will be okay.
i know it wasnt all bad, those days before. i know there were a few right turns in there.
second chance?
maybe someday...
but i think things are okay for now
if i can talk to you somedays, well yeah i like that.
(happy?)
(for now, and its ok that way)

okay.

my mother has a million reasons for why she fell asleep on the coach last night, every night, but all of them seem to be insistent that it has nothing to do with my father. thats funny.

i found the best part of town today. when i *cough* went to study at the library. the sunset is microtiny with a gazillion rays sprouting from it, from there. (when your high as balls)

me and my brother have these dreams in common that our (now decest)(sp WOW WTF) pet hamsters have shrunk into tiny balls and well in mine they climb up the chimney and fountain from the top and i haveto run outside to capture them, but their tiney and theyre so hard to find
i used to wake up thinking i had fallen asleep with my hamster and look for him and after like 10 minutes i would realize i was only dreming that and go back to sleep feeling like a crazy person

we used to let my hamster sit in the living room. he would curl up in a little ball and sleep. maybe he was scared, i never thought about that. he would just freeze and not move.
then one day i came back from the kitchen and he had rolled over. i knew he was about to die, my mom didnt think so and she kept picking him up and moving him, i told her osmething was def wrong. he normally wasnt that bad. i yelled for my brother and sat on the coach with him on my tummy. he liked doing that. i would always read or draw with him there. but then i said i thought he was gonig to die. and i saw him breathe his last lil hamster breath.
all animals LOVE whipcream.

oh the moon and the stars shine for you

i feel like moving on would be a very good thing for me..
a large part of me is hoping that by writing this down, it will reinforce it. and it will become more believable.
and therefore, making these words actions.
dont get me wrong, i still love you more then anyone else could.
but this. this isnt healthy for me.
and i know life isnt always about being happy. and ill always be here for you. and i guess if you ever would take me back..
but thats not how im thinking of things anymore.
i dont think there really is anything different in this little resolution. maybe its just the mindset. yeah i guess thats it.
but idk.. Anita's happy, Anita is moving on. shes quiet inspiring.
cats moving on.
and ethans moving on.
i really need to follow the trend everyone seems to be setting.
i think i need your thoughts and prayers on this one..

*ya know.. i hate to say this but everything from our past has become so bitter sweet..and sometimes youve said it "sweat dreams" and etc.. and its cute and i like it alil.. but i also cringe.

fuck

haha so much for the not communicating with him thing..
i texted him and asked if we could talk. idk why i did that. it was one of those impulse things.
ughhhhhh
whatever. knowing him, it wont happen...
is that a good thing? to try to look at him in a negative light?
cause when rob talked bad about him, i still disagreed.
(by the way i think its really fucked up to untag yourself from all the pictures of us together on facebook. yeah that still gets to me)

i really hate missing you this much.
and i wonder if he knows how much hes hurt me. i wonder if he would give a damn

after all that we've been through, i know were cool.

i went to a coffee shop to see tulsas own, callie.
she was really good, and cuteee if i might say so.
i went with rob, we went to dinner beforehand. i guess he took it as a date O.o whatever
he tried to make a move, dont worry i didn't let him. at all.
we ended up talkin, sitting outside a Walgreen's. im sure i sounded like such an emo kid. but talking to him made me feel better. made me feel loved. and i was comforted by the knowledge that i still had a friend in this person whom Ive gone through soo much with.
he told me i needed to work on moving on.
and i kinda have been right? just... not with the actual intentions of moving on. haa im lame..
im sorry, i just kinda love this Ethan kid...
but, i still try my hardest, to be happy. its difficult. to not indulge in the feelings he has left me with.
but im going to do the- not call, not text, thing again (well see how long it lasts)
cause honestly kelsey, if he cared how you were doing, he would ask.
(oh and by the way i think its really fucked up that you even mentioned the idea of telling people you were a virgin and that we never had sex.WTF MATE)

that was a bad night

i wont lie.
but its not like things are ever much better.
saying 'i miss you' is an understatement. cause being without you is so much more painful then anything I've ever felt.
and I'd like to say it gets better with time, but it really doesn't. the pain just sits there inside of you. and you try your hardest not to collapse into it. you fill your time with friends and work and 'things that need to get done'. but when all you ever really lived was with a particular person, whose presence is now nonexistent, living doesn't really seem to happen.
that doesn't mean I'm not content at certain points throughout the day. i am.. i just cant believe how much i.. took advantage of our time together. the days we did absolutely nothing; i would give anything to experience that again.

i cant believe i managed to fuck up the best thing I've ever had.

... doesnt this picture tend to move?

i thought it might help me to just make a list

you know how osmetimes youll be thinking about something so much and its just nice to really get it out on paper.
well pardon this, but i honestly need to.
i need to go through it all.
all the things i loved about us.. and maybe i could... idk.. im not sure what the point of this is.

remember way back when,
when we started talking online about homecoming, for some reason i decided i wanted to go with you, despite the fact that, honestly, we never were that good of friends.
our first inside joke, "sweat dreams". and you never let me forget it :)
when we would go to bona with taylor, and i would ask questions about god. and with a bible and computer in hand we'd sip on 'waffles' and discover our own answers
and this guy, whose breath smelled back told me about this gay club i should visit, sometime.
and the first face to face conversation we had, just you and me. it was about how you burnt your eyelashes and eyebrows off, whenevers ago.
and probably one of the best days of my life, you me taylor and christine were running around after working a band contest. fighting for man points and going to your house for the first time.
one word. homecoming. it was the night that seems so.. perfect. i had this guy.. who i was so so into.. friends, everything. it was perfect. and our first kiss... (similar to twilight ive figured, minus the lip biting and i-want-your-blood shit) it was the most amazing first kiss ive ever experienced.. and walking into my house that night, i was walking on the moon. :)
and we could never get away from bona, it was our default. and taylor and christine, yeah we started that.
the band trip to st. louis. we talked about past relationships and sex. and, and i touched your penis >.>
and i remember how on fire we were for each other. and with the being late to band stuff and an awkward moment of being seen by my mother and brother, we made a decision, together, to bring it down a bit
andyou brought me and taylor drifting for the first time. and i thought "does this kid know what the fuck hes doing!?" but you did, and it became a favorite pass time.
when we snuck into that church that was under construction and i felt liek such a bad ass i coulda just died
and we made a gingerbread house, and i pointed out your color blindness on an obnoxious level, but you showed off your architectural skills you had acquired from tech :)
ad we went to the park and you told me about your dream day of spending the day at the park with a special someone. and so with our recent love for sushi, i took you to the park with homemade sushi and we watched the sun set
and over christmas break you meet my extended family. and of course they had to go and talk about peeing in the shower
and we started going to life church together, you were scared tat i didnt really like it, but it was the start fo something that im still very much a part of.
and when i finally turned 16. i was upset that morning, and u came over and made me better. you took me to salvastonos and shopping. followed by a suprise bday party with all my friends. and thats still one of the best days of my life.
and how you umm 'defended my honor' but in reality it was just a puppy at the park.
all of our favorite 'parking' spots
which resulted in the first time i was completly naked around you. and youd think id feel unconfortable, but i never felt more comfortable.
time just flew by, we made a ritual of going to eat on saturday, life church and then we'd go exploring- graffiti, memorial, banksy and post secrets, the mall. everything
and the first time that u interduced me to jake, and you could tell that i was nervous so you held my hand.
and all the times we 'almost' had sex. oh my. the time your uncle was asleep downstairs, all the hickeys i got that night... but hell, those 2 hours.. hehe unreplacable.
i have this blur of memories, of all the times we would just be in your car driving- a dr pepper on hand, my arms around yours- some dave matthews going- we'd talk about everything. our hopes dreams and regrets. we never seemed to need anything to entertain us. and we were so so invinsible. nothing seemed to touch us...
i remember when brian used to think i was 'cool' and he used to tell you, you were lucky to have a girlfriend like me... i really wish i never fucked that up...
i remembe the birthday party i threw for you. it wasnt actually on your birthday.. on your birthday we went to the riverwalk parking lot. we talked and you tried to get my to rip stick for the millionth time. its kinda lame how little progress i made, compared to how much time we invested in it... :) but i gave you a hickey, just cause i guess i had made it on my own for like 5 ft. yeah your parents noticed that night. that was awkward... but somewhere between the drunk girls at th concert and waiting forevers to pee, i couldnt have been happier to be with you on your day..
and prom. dear god. haha as we were dancing, somehow, me grinding on you, made your pants keep sliding down haha and we saw brian REALLY get into the music. the limo, the melting pot, ihop and how exhausted we were.. it was amazing.
the next morning, we woke up with the same feeling, we were o in love.a nd you came over and we wrestled and played and kissed and made pinapple pizza. we never needed anything to entertain us.
oh dear lord. wrestling? i never got enough of that. and we'd walk around the house, me, propped on your shoulders, and you ran me into the ceiling post. YEAH. but i guess its fair since i pushed you infront of a truck.. opppsies ;)
and that one time we had a marker fight. somehow beign with you, i never could seem to stop smiling.
and we saw the toll of death. michaels dad. but rob's mom was the hardest. and i didnt even cry untill you came over. you were my strong man when i needed you. even if it was my ex's mother.
the first time we had sex. i can tell you the order fo the day form dawn to dusk.. but well.. idk.. it was so right. and i felt like the nasty things that were done to me, wasnt a part of me anymore. it was replaced by the most beautiful thing ive ever known, that was love. and then we went to ihop :)
and graduation came, i told you i was upfront jealous of you. cause it never seemed right to me... with you taylor and nathan- i went through graduation with you guys that year. so having 2 more years.. kinda fucked with me.. but what bugged me the most was that i didnt get a picture with you after it :P i didnt ever find you >.< the summer can some friendly. and we would spend the days together in any way we could. just being at my houe or yours. at your grandmas pool, the mall, exploring, eattin out way too much and cooking, the park, everywhereee
and we were at your grandmas pool this one particular time. we talked about the future. our future. our lives, together. and we had sex in water for the first time, and took a shower together for the first time. and i jumped in a pool naked for the first time. you and me together. it was everything to me
and we would talk like that alot, about havign kids, what they would be like, how we would raise them.. it seemed so perfect..
i rememebr all the times i would make u a turkey and chz sandwich and bring it to you while you were working. and id lean across the counter and bug you while you saw to customers
everything that happend that summer, im sure the bad justifies the break up.. but there was always so much good. there were always so many things i had to look forward to.
and the summer sun, it most have ampified the way i felt for you. cause when we sat in your car behind quicktrip and talked about you going away, and how we could make it through these 2 years, you were all i ever needed. (continue)